Friday, 4 January 2013


A Single Man by Christopher Isherwood
A Single Man
Christopher Isherwood
If there’s one thing I love (almost) as much as a good book, it’s a good film. From the old classics, to musicals, to gritty modern dramas, to documentaries and comedies – if it’s a movie, and it’s good, I’m in. A couple of years ago, I decided as an experiment in annualism to watch as many films and read as many books as I could, and keep track of them. I ended up with well over 100 movies, and upwards of 50 books (which was actually fewer than I expected), and it was fun to look back over them, decide on favourites and stinkers, and notice how many titles were on both the book and the film lists.
Let’s face it – the book is always better than the film. I will stand by that assertion 99.9% of the time (three possible exceptions come to mind – Fight Club by Chuck Palahniuk, The Princess Bride by William Goldman and Shoeless Joe by W.P. Kinsella which became the movie Field of Dreams. All three were excellent books, and all three were adapted into even better movies). But there’s a reason the book is generally more satisfying.  Books let us use our own limitless imagination, and don’t operate within existing inventions, proper conventions or time constraints. They’re free to be more descriptive, more complete, and more wholly realised.
So I think it’s important to enjoy movies for movies and books for books, and try not to constantly compare (I have a hard time with this) and be indignant when a favourite scene from the book ends up on a Hollywood editing room floor. And when a film adaptation of a book is well done and comprehensive enough to even hold a candle to the book, or just work phenomenally well on its own, it’s worth recognition, celebration and recommendation. So here is a selection of some of the book-to-film adaptations I’ve seen over the past year or so – ones to see, ones to avoid, and ones that fall somewhere in between.

Abject Failure:

Gulliver's Travels by Jonathan SwiftGulliver’s Travels Poor Jonathan Swift. Way back in the 18th century, he wrote an epic, imaginative tale of adventure through glorious and frightening lands. Detailed and creative enough to satisfy the most inquisitive young mind, the story is full of heavy political satire for adults, and extremely well-written.  Nearly 300 years later, his masterpiece has hit the big screen with the loud and bumbling, ham-fisted antics of Jack Black playing the same obnoxious character as always, this time named Lemuel Gulliver. It’s a modern adaptation that is embarrassing and painful , bears little or no resemblance to Swift’s story, and also manages to fail spectacularly as a standalone piece. If you must watch a film version, the 1996 version starring Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen isn’t half-bad, and at least allows the story enough room to develop in its three hours – the Jack Black disaster is a scant 85 minutes (though that may actually be a mercy). Stick to the book.

Shutter Island A lot of people disagree with me on this one, but Lord, I really disliked this movie. It lacked the tension, suspense and intrigue of Dennis Lehane’s writing, and instead became an entirely unsubtle commercial for its own cleverness and plot twists. Competent acting by stars Leonardo DiCaprio and Mark Ruffalo couldn’t save this film, and at just over two hours it felt like three. The dialogue was often painful, and plot points remained frustratingly unclear. The whole thing felt like an exercise in waiting-for-it-to-be-over. In contrast, the book was engaging and dynamic with a well-explained plot and excellent pacing – good enough to reread.

The Lovely Bones I wanted desperately to like this. I found the book by Alice Sebold  so moving, so easy and quick to read while never feeling condescending, dumbed-down or overly simple, that I was excited to watch the film and see how the director handled some of the more unusual aspects of the book (like Susie’s personal, ever-changing version of heaven). While much of the film was beautifully and tastefully handled (it’s not easy making a film about the rape and murder of a child, I’d imagine), and there were strong performances from the actors (Stanley Tucci in particular), the movie felt hollow compared to the book. The relationship between family members lacked the heart and believable bonds that the book did so well. It’s not terrible, but it’s not worthy of the story it tells.

The Ghost by Robert Harris - became the film called The Ghost WriterThe Ghost Writer Robert Harris’ 2007 novel (called The Ghost) is a politically-charged, tense and intriguing thriller that keeps the pages turning. The film, however, flubs it entirely and loses all of the nuance and suspense of the book. In its place we find a disappointingly wooden, dull performance from Ewan McGregor, and heavy-handed, obvious direction in the form of glaring symbolism and over-the-top foreshadowing. Olivia Williams gives a great performance, but it’s not enough to save the film. At just over two hours, during which suspense was supposed to be building, the result is both boring and annoying, and too full of itself to have any real meaning. Definitely read the book, definitely skip the movie.

Charlie St. Cloud Based on Ben Sherwood’s novel The Death and Life of Charlie St. Cloud, this movie is an hour-and-a-half of sappy, heartwarming, Hollywood-manipulated, Hallmark-based schlock. It will leave your teeth aching. Don’t get me wrong – the book is plenty touching and a bit of a sobfest in and of itself, but the film takes any subtlety, genuine emotion, realistic interaction, or real human experience and stomps it to death under the sickening-sweet swell of violins and predictable, nauseating dialogue. Even the most stoic Oprah-fan or romance novel-lover will have sore eyes from rolling them so hard. Avoid.


Roaring Success:

True Grit by Charles PortisTrue Grit Leave it to the Coen Brothers to take an iconic novel, already made into an excellent film, and remake it into the best version yet. While not quite as true to the book as the 1969 John Wayne version, the 2010 update starring Jeff Bridges, Josh Brolin and more is absolutely fantastic, and seems to better capture the tone of Charles Portis’ words – not only in the dialogue (much is direct from the book) but also in the dark humour and grisly, matter-of-fact violence throughout.  As well, the setting, clothing and appearance of the film are spot-on.  While both films suffer from an over-sentimentality absent from the book, and neither quite paints the character of Mattie as richly as she deserves, the 2010 version does a hell of a job and is a great, great time at the movies.
Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (Part 1) I’ll give credit to JK Rowling for keeping this series of kids’ books sophisticated and imaginative to the very end, with the plots and concepts becoming more adult as Harry and his friends grow up. After being disappointed with the sixth Harry Potter movie, I was skeptical of how they would handle the Deathly Hallows, which brings together the entire series, and is dark, dangerous and downright frightening. First, splitting the book into two films was genius, and necessary. Had they tried to stuff the 36-chapter monster into one movie, even at three hours, they would have missed crucial plot points and subtleties, and the result could only have been unsatisfying. In fact, the first part was excellently done, and pulled no punches – the scenes with Voldemort’s snake, Nagini, for instance, were nightmarishly scary. I think the decisions to cut and change the parts they did made sense and didn’t  alter the tone, feel or plot of the original story. I look forward to seeing the next one (after a reread of the book, of course, to freshen up).
Youth in Revolt by C.D. PayneYouth in Revolt One of the most delicious aspects of C.D. Payne’s coming-of-age novel is how very dark the humour gets in places, and how funny it manages to be while delving into the black pit-of-despair depths of unfortunately-named teenager Nick Twisp. The screen adaptation manages to capture that just right in most places, if occasionally veering into over-the-top territory. While not exactly much of a stretch in emotional range, it’s also nice to see Michael Cera play dual characters Francois and Twisp and explore a slightly different side of his usually one-dimensional repertoire. Definitely read the book, but the movie does a decent job of capturing the sarcastic angst and delivers a really fun 90 minutes.
A Single Man Christopher Isherwood’s novel about a closeted gay British man living and working as a professor in California is a masterpiece. At the time of its original publication in 1964, it shocked readers with its quietly compelling and unflinching description of George through a series of flashbacks and his present-day attempts to adjust to the sudden death of his life partner. The film is exquisitely done, expertly cast with Colin Firth delivering a subtle, beautiful performance as George.  I still think the book is better and leaves the reader with a more whole picture of George, his love of life, and his loss, but the movie was as well done as one could ask.
Winter’s Bone I saved the best for last. Most of Daniel Woodrell’s novels are set in the Ozark region of the southern United States, and Winter’s Bone is no exception.  The story centres around Ree, a teenage girl who lives in the very rural Ozarks with her mentally ill mother, and her two young siblings. When she learns that her criminal father has put their house up for his bail and disappeared, she sets off to try to find him rather than risk losing their home. Unfortunately, the people with whom her father spends time, including his brother (brilliantly played in the film adaptation by John Hawkes)  are a dangerous element, mostly involved in cooking crank (methamphetamine) and making people disappear. Ree (flawlessly played by Jennifer Lawrence) is fearless in the book, without bravado or glory, simply matter-of-fact and desperate and fierce. The movie is as close to perfect as I could imagine it being. Read it, see it, enjoy it.

20 Recent Movies from Books

Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
Eat, Pray, Love
Elizabeth Gilbert
Dear John by Nicholas Sparks
Dear John
Nicholas Sparks
Ramona and Beezus by Beverly Cleary
Beezus and Ramona
Beverly Cleary

5 Upcoming Adaptations to Watch For (and Read Now!):

The Help by Kathryn Stockett
The Help
Kathryn Stockett
World War Z by Max Brooks
World War Z
Max Brooks
The Rum Diary: A Novel by Hunter S. Thompson
The Rum Diary: A Novel
Hunter S. Thompson
 
 
 

Blindness & Beyond: José Saramago's Literary Legacy

by Scott Laming
Blindness by José Saramago
Blindness
José Saramago
Nobel Prize-winning writer José Saramago came from very humble origins. He was born into a poor rural family in central Portugal in 1922 but was being hailed as one of the world’s best novelists by the end of the 1990s.
He died in June 2010 and it seems a shame that not all of his books have been translated into English.  Saramago published over 30 separate works and sold more than two million books in Portugal alone - an amazing feat considering the country only has 10 million citizens.
Saramago began to make a name for himself after winning the Portuguese PEN Club Award for Baltasar and Bilmunda in 1982. In 1995, he was handed the most important award in Portuguese literature, the Camões Prize, and was given the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1998.
Although Saramago was a prolific writer, his career began slowly – one of his earliest jobs was working as a car mechanic.  His first novel, Terra do Pecado (Land of Sin), was published in 1947 (when he was just 25) however it took a further 19 years for his second book, a collection of poems called Os Poemas Possíveis (The Possible Poems),  to be published.  His first book to be translated into English was Baltasar and Blimunda in 1987 as demand began to grow.
His novel Blindness (entitled Ensaio sobre a Cegueira on the original Portuguese edition) is his most famous work. It is a novel of immense power that details the fine line between structured civilisation and chaos. Blindness focuses on a random collection of characters in an unnamed city thrown together as they succumb to a sudden and unfathomable plague of blindness. Forced into quarantine in a squalid asylum, Saramago details their desperate fight for survival and the ensuing rapid deterioration of systems and society. There is also a sequel, Seeing, featuring some of the same characters.

A Selection of José Saramago Literature

Portuguese Only Editions

Terra do Pecado
Terra do Pecado

13 Food Bloggers to watch in 2013


These incredibly talented bloggers will continue to delight in 2013!
As we start to see the end to 2012, it’s time to make lists. I love lists! Here’s our list of 13 Food Bloggers we will be watching in 2013…
1. TARA O’BRADY – www.sevenspoons.net – I love ‘homegrown’ talent! This amazing blogger from Ontario, brings together stunning photography and a fun easy writing style. Her blog is well known internationally, and we love it!
2. BARRY PARSONS – www.rockrecipes.ca – What a great recipe blog from St. John’s, Newfoundland. This is a big site! Lots of great photos, easy recipes, the complete package. A must visit.
3. CAROLYN & ERIN MAYNES – www.foodiepages.ca – this is an amazing idea that two sisters have brought to life. The idea was simple – bring together artisanal food producers from across Canada to sell their products in one place, brilliant! Packing them up in gift boxes matched with famous chefs recipes, also brilliant. Watch out for these two in 2013!
4. MEETA K. WOLFF – www.whatsforlunchhoney.net – this is a fabulous site from Germany. Meeta is an great photographer, and her recipes have a real international flair.
5. JEANINE DONOFRIO – www.loveandlemons.com – this site is just so sweet and pretty! The recipes here are mostly vegetarian, with lots of whole unprocessed ingredients. Take a visit to this blog from Austin, Texas, you’ll love it!
6. JENNIFER – www.seasonsandsuppers.ca – Another amazing blogger from Ontario, we love this site because it’s simple and approachable. Lots a wonderful recipes with clean fresh photography.
7. LINDSAY & BJORK – www.pinchofyum.com – I know I’ve mentioned this site a lot, but it continues to amaze! This blogger from Minneapolis, now living the Philippines for a year, writes with such ease you feel she is talking directly to you. Her photography is stunning, simple and delicious. In 2013 they are launching a new resource site – Food Blogger Pro. It’s bound to be the new go-to site for all foodies who make a living from their blogs.
8. RENEÉ KOHLMAN – www.sweetsugarbean.com – another entry from Canada, this time Saskatoon,  Saskatchewan. This blog has stunning photos! I go there just for the ‘food porn’ alone. Reneé is a busy professional chef, that shares her love of natural ingredients in this wonderful blog. A hidden gem!
9. SIMONE – junglefrog-cooking.com – We are off to the Netherlands for our next blog to watch. Simone is a food photographer living in Holland. She teaches other bloggers about photography, while working on this great blog. Interesting recipes and great shots, go take a trip…
10. SOMMER COLLIER – www.aspicyperspective.com – This blog based in Asheville, North Carolina, is a great mix of global fare, healthy-conscious dishes, and good ol’ American comfort food. Her recipes are easy, tasty and shot with great style.
11. KRISTIN ROSENAU – www.pastryaffair.com – OMG who does not love pastries! Kristin’s breathtaking and naturally-lit photos are just stunning!
12. LINDSAY & TAYLOR – www.loveandoliveoil.com – Another husband and wife team, this couple from Nashville are all about quick and flavorful dishes on a budget – love that! plus, they really love cookies… kindred spirits!
13. RUSSELL VAN KRAAYENBURG  – www.chasingdelicious.com, www.theboysclub.com – this blogger from Texas knows his way around a cocktail! Great recipes, stunning photos, and check out the wonderful meat cuts posters he sells at his store.

Such amazing talent, spread the word!

Start A Revolution: Start Loving Your Body. ~ Corinne Casella



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After another fight with my scale that ended in frustrated tears, I realized that I have been on a diet for almost 20 years.

The diets have taken on various forms of adaptations but the fact remains that I have been trying to change my shape for two decades. Ever since I was a child I have felt that there was something wrong with how I looked. Family, friends and media all played a part but at the end of the day it was me telling myself that I didn’t measure up. The more I put myself down the more I found solace in food, the more I found solace in food, well you can imagine.

I have never been skinny. I’ve never worn a bikini or been the smallest in the room.

Photo: David D
Photo: David D
A fact that has haunted me for years. Being the tallest of all my friends and the heaviest only added to my adolescent and adult insecurities. Suffice it to say my self-love wasn’t where it should be. The problem had come to a frightening head when I heard through mutual friends of an online self-sabotage workshop. I followed my intuition and signed up for Richelle Henry’s Kick Self-Sabotage Challenge. After only 8 days the program showed me something revolutionary. To change what you don’t like, you have to learn to love what you have.
Love myself as is?! How could I do that when every magazine cover, commercial, mirror was telling me something different? I realized it was time to make a different kind of change. This time I needed to change how I treated myself. According to Glamour’s The Secret Way People Are Judging You Based on Your Body, when it comes to weight, negative stereotypes are ingrained in our sub-conscious. For example, an overweight woman is often regarded as lazy, sloppy and jovial. While her thinner counterpart, is often categorized as vain, bitchy and conceited. Clearly an unfair assessment on both sides of the spectrum. It leads me to the heart of the matter. What does weight really have to do with anything?

Maybe it’s not healthy to have an identity wrapped up in poundage. Perhaps a person’s merit should be based on something more substantial than their pant size. How revolutionary!

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My inquiry led  me to Geneen Roth’s popular best-seller Women, Food & God. Ms. Roth’s approach is to stop dieting  and pay attention to what you’re eating and why. She believes that if you follow an addiction back to its source you will discover your beliefs in God, yourself and life itself. Basically she promotes stripping  all the bull-shit away and doing the real work, the hard stuff. And all of a sudden this makes sense to me. Because while my battle to be fit has very little to do with food, it has everything to do with food.
Months of spiritual work, self-inquiry and a regular meditation practice later I am beginning to see that my years of self-abuse was the problem, not how I looked or what I ate. Love and acceptance was the key along. I now speak more kindly to myself and have begun to practice blocking the negativity of others. I am working on making healthy choices that nourish, rather than hurt me. It’s a process. I am working on a balance, working on becoming the me I see in my mind’s eye. But this time, even though I know I will fall, I will also rise. If I eat too much or forget to exercise I will not become Public Enemy #1. I’ll just be human. A beautiful human who has a lot more going for her than sheer mass. A wondrous soul, worthy of all the love in the universe. A lot like you, in fact.
corinne32Corinne Casella was born and raised in New Jersey and now resides along the banks of the Hudson in Jersey City.  She is a freelance writer and editor with over seven years of professional experience.  Combining writing and yoga to her is a logical step, because if anything can bring about change in a world as large as ours, it’s through our open hearts and our pens. Connect with Corinne on her blog and read more from her here.
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Assistant Editor: Malin Bergman


Thursday, 3 January 2013

Suzette Field's top 10 literary party hosts

From Jay Gatsby to Mrs Dalloway to the Devil himself, here's a selection of the meanest party throwers in literature
Baz Luhrmann's forthcoming adaptation of F Scott Fitzgerald's The Great Gatsby
Party piece … a still from Baz Luhrmann's forthcoming adaptation of F Scott Fitzgerald's The Great Gatsby. Photograph: Sportsphoto Ltd/Allstar/Warner Bros
As a professional party organiser, I base many of my events on parties from works of literature. These fictional parties usually have a dramatic as well as a social function. They can provide the backdrop for significant events, including intrigues, seductions, quarrels and even murders. Frequently, they are a vehicle for satire, particularly on the theme of the social aspirations of the nouveau riche. All this means that the hosts tend to be larger than life. Here are a few of my favourites.
  1. A Curious Invitation: The Forty Greatest Parties in Literature
  2. by Suzette Field

1. Gaius Pompeius Trimalchio in The Satyricon by Petronius

A freed Roman slave turned shipping merchant, Trimalchio throws possibly the most extravagant dinner party in literature, which forms the cornerstone of The Satyricon. His guests are subjected to 12 punishing courses, including a whole wild boar accompanied by suckling piglets and a boiled calf wearing a helmet. This culinary ensemble is served by singing, dancing slaves who also recite Trimalchio's hack poetry. In a mawkish finale the host stages an elaborate dress rehearsal of his own funeral, complete with musicians and weeping mourners. Trimalchio is probably the most referenced host in literature; Fitzgerald's original title for The Great Gatsby was "Trimalchio of West Egg".

2. Jay Gatsby in The Great Gatsby by F Scott Fitzgerald

The hero of The Great Gatsby and the enigmatic host of a series of house parties in Long Island in the summer of 1922, at the height of the prohibition era. Despite his habit of sporting a pink suit, Gatsby manages to keep a low profile at his own parties and the majority of his guests are unaware of his identity. Conversation is devoted to speculating on the source of his wealth, with theories abounding as to whether he is a German spy, a bootlegger or even second cousin to the devil. But there is a secret agenda behind Gatsby's social munificence – he hopes one day to find among his guests Daisy Fay, the girl he loved and lost before the great war. Once the parties come to an end Gatsby's guests prove to be fickle, with only two of them bothering to show up to his funeral.

3. Madame la Marquise de Sainte-Euverte in In Search of Lost Time by Marcel Proust

A fashionable Parisian hostess who throws parties throughout the seven volumes of Proust's In Search of Lost Time, the Marquise is known for her musical soirees, where she gives guests a foretaste of artists who will appear at her forthcoming charitable fundraisers. Despite her having a brother and brother-in-law who are archbishops, she's rather looked down on by the beau monde of the Faubourg Saint-Germain who frequent her salons. Perhaps this is due to her habit of inviting absolutely everyone in genteel Parisian society without discrimination, and then leaking her guest list to the press. One guest likens her opening her mouth to his cesspit rupturing.

4. Odin in the Prose Edda by Snorri Sturluson

The father of the gods as described in the Prose Edda hosts a permanent revel in Valhalla. His guests are the Einherjar: warriors who have perished in battle. He provides them with meat from a magical boar that is cooked each night and reborn whole the next morning, and an endless supply of mead that flows from the udders of a goat perched on the roof is served to them by Valkyrie handmaidens. If the guests think Odin's hospitality is too good to be true – it is. The party is destined to go on until Ragnarök – the ultimate battle between good and evil – where the bad news is that, according to the prophecies, all the warriors will be slain.

5. The Duchess of Richmond in Childe Harold's Pilgrimage and Vanity Fair

A real-life party hostess who appears in works by both Lord Byron and William Thackeray, she owes her abiding renown to a total historical fluke. A snobbish, disagreeable woman, she was living with her husband in Brussels in self-imposed exile for pecuniary reasons; her ball, given on 15 June 1815, was merely one in a series of society occasions thrown for officers of Wellington's army, which was based in the Belgian capital. But happily for the duchess's future fame Napoleon picked the same day to launch an offensive that culminated in the battle of Waterloo. Lady Caroline Lamb famously described the party: "There was never such a ball – so fine and so sad. All the young men who appeared there shot dead a few days after." In reality only 11 of the guests were among the battlefield fatalities.

6. Jean-Frédéric Taillefer in The Red Inn and The Wild Ass's Skin by Honore de Balzac

A former army surgeon turned wealthy financier who, according to rumour, acquired the seeds of his fortune by murdering a business associate, Taillefer has reinvented himself as a press baron. To launch his first newspaper he arranges a party of the utmost magnificence: an all-night binge with exotic wines and women, to be held at his mansion on the Rue Joubert, to which he invites all the creative lights of Paris. His hope is that the sparkle and wit of their conversation will provide him with the material for his forthcoming organ.

7. Mrs Dalloway in Mrs Dalloway by Virginia Woolf

The wife of a Conservative MP, Clarissa Dalloway is the heroine of Virginia Woolf's life-in-a-day novel. The "perfect hostess" of 1920s London, she spends her day buying flowers, sewing her dress, having a rest on the sofa and writing a letter while her servants busy themselves arranging her party. Impeccably mannered, she greets each guest announced by the hired butler with a "how delightful to see you". She is able to entertain her guest of honour, the prime minister, with "the most perfect ease and air of a creature floating in its element".

8. Truman Capote

Used his literary fame and the proceeds of his crime thriller In Cold Blood to host a legendary "Black and White Ball" at the Plaza hotel in New York in November 1966. The guestlist was made up of friends from the worlds of showbiz, politics and finance, ranging from Frank Sinatra to J Edgar Hoover. It was a masked ball, but many of the celebrity guest contrived to wear the smallest masks possible. This "godlike gathering of five hundred" played out against the backdrop of the Vietnam war is satirised in Don DeLillo's novel Underworld: "Have you ever seen so many people gathered in one place in order to be rich, powerful and disgusting together?" Capote enjoyed party-giving so much that he never got round to finishing another novel.

9. Didier "Le Basque" Laxalt in Lights Out in Wonderland by DBC Pierre

Ex-foreign legionnaire, restaurateur, purveyor of exotic culinary produce and party-promoter extraordinaire, Laxalt arranges bespoke decadent banquets in exotic venues for those who can afford it. Payment is in diamonds; only the occasional non-billionaire manages to make it onto the guestlist. At a party thrown in the disused Tempelhof airport in Berlin he serves a series of dishes featuring endangered species, including panda paw, koala leg and Galápagos Island tortoise. Known for never staying at his own parties to the end, Le Basque believes that the perfect event should have a defined finishing point, which should always be a little before guests desire, so they are left with a taste of wanting more.

10. The Devil in The Master and Margarita by Mikhail Bulgakov

The ultimate decadent party host. He arrives in 1930s Moscow under the guise of conjuror Professor Woland to host his annual Walpurgis Night celebration: the "Spring Ball of the Full Moon". His guestlist is to die for (literally), consisting entirely of damned sinners, including Caligula, Messalina and Ivan the Terrible's chief of police. The venue, a modest flat on Sadovaya Street, conceals a tropical forest filled with parrots and butterflies, two grand ballrooms lit by will-o'-the-wisps, a symphony orchestra and an ape jazz band, three ornamental fountains spurting champagne and a pool of pink champagne that later turns to cognac, in which lissom female guests frolic.
Suzette Field is the tribune of events promoter The Last Tuesday Society. In 2009 the Society opened a shop, art gallery and museum in Hackney. A Curious Invitation: The Forty Greatest Parties in Literature is her first book. Buy it at the Guardian bookshop.



11 Plus 1 Reasons to Face Our Fears.



Source: metro.co.uk via Tara on Pinterest

“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” – Paulo Coelho

Sometimes fear can become so completely overwhelming, that it steals our breath and tosses us down to one side.
And sometimes fear can freeze us directly into our place—where we believe that nothing may happen in this space of non-doing.
But always, and everyday, and as is the case with all things— fear must ultimately be faced, and never hidden from, so that we may crush that barrier that often keeps us away from the things we wish and want most for in our lives.
Sometimes, it may seem to be the better of all ideas to stay tucked away in our beds and snugly under those sheets—but in the end, and in the immortal words of Lao Tzu,
“Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.”

11 plus 1 Reasons to Face Our Fears

“Love is what we are born with. Fear is what we learn. The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and prejudices and the acceptance of love back in our hearts. Love is the essential reality and our purpose on earth. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us.”
~ Marianne Williamson
“I will not die an unlived life. I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire. I choose to inhabit my days, to allow my living to open me, to make me less afraid, more accessible, to loosen my heart until it becomes a wing, a torch, a promise. I choose to risk my significance; to live so that which comes to me as seed goes to the next as blossom and that which comes to me as blossom, goes on as fruit.”
~ Dawna Markova
“The more you are motivated by love, the more fearless and free your actions will be.”
~ Dalai Lama
“We’re in a free-fall into future. We don’t know where we’re going. Things are changing so fast, and always when you’re going through a long tunnel, anxiety comes along. And all you have to do to transform your hell into a paradise is to turn your fall into a voluntary act. It’s a very interesting shift of perspective and that’s all it is… joyful participation in the sorrows and everything changes.”
~ Joseph Campbell
“When a resolute young fellow steps up to the great bully, the world, and takes him boldly by the beard, he is often surprised to find it comes off in his hand, and that it was only tied on to scare away the timid adventurers.”
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Fear knocked at the door. Faith answered. No one was there.”
~ Author Unknown
“Never compromise a dream. Do what you must. The fears, beasts, and mountains before you are part of the plan. Stepping stones to a promised land. To a time and place that is so much closer than even you expect. So don’t let your eyes deceive you, for even as you read these words, your ship swiftly approaches…”
~ Mike Dooley
“People are like stained-glass windows.
They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,
but when the darkness sets in,
their true beauty is revealed
only if there is a light from within.”
~ Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

“It is not because things are difficult
that we do not dare.
It is because we do not dare
that they are difficult.”
~ Seneca
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream.”
~ Mark Twain
“And the day came
when the risk to remain tight in a bud
became more painful
than the risk it took to blossom.”
~ Anais Nin

And finally,

“There are millions of Americans who are clever and fearless, but the trouble is they are only four years old.”
~ Author Unknown


What J.R.R. Tolkien said to the Nazis when they asked if he was Jewish.



Via Reddit: “In 1938, Tolkien was preparing to release The Hobbit in Germany. The publishers first wanted to know if he was of Aryan descent. This was his response.”

If I am to understand that you are enquiring whether I am of Jewish origin, I can only reply that I regret that I appear to have no ancestors of that gifted people.

My great-great-grandfather came to England in the eighteenth century from Germany: the main part of my descent is therefore purely English, and I am an English subject—which should be sufficient.

I have been accustomed, nonetheless, to regard my German name with pride, and continued to do so throughout the period of the late regrettable war, in which I served in the English army.

I cannot, however, forbear to comment that if impertinent and irrelevant inquiries of this sort are to become the rule in matters of literature, then the time is not far distant when a German name will no longer be a source of pride.